Letters from the Prairie
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Letters from the Prairie: The Winter Correspondence of Mrs. Marian Tate to Mrs. Colette Abernathy
As Introduced by Miss Sybil Whitlow,
Editor of The Wisteria Almanack
Winter Issue, 1856
Dear Reader,
It is with reverence and a hush of winter stillness that I present to you this series of letters from Mrs. Marian Tate—a young widow dwelling alone in the Kansas Territory during that first long, uncertain season of 1855.
The letters, written to her sister, Lettie, in the East, came to my notice through a mutual acquaintance who understood the quiet beauty they held. What began as a simple chronicle of homestead life soon deepened into something more: a portrait of resilience, of unexpected companionship, and of a woman whose pen traced the slow thaw of her heart even as the land around her lay frozen.
Mrs. Tate’s voice is one of uncommon clarity—practical yet lyrical, observant but never sentimental. Her words reveal not only the hardship of frontier survival but the flickering hope that something tender might take root even in the harshest soil.
What I find most striking is not merely what she says, but how she sees: the subtle shift in prairie winds, the weight of silence broken by another’s voice, the careful noticing of a stranger's carved gift on a windowsill. These letters offer no grand declarations—only the honest unfolding of a life in progress.
It is our hope, dear reader, that as you turn these pages, you might feel as I did: drawn into the hush of snow outside a small cabin window, warmed by the fire within, and reminded that love—like the prairie crocus—may bloom even after the longest frost.
With ink-stained fingers and a heart full of grace,
Sybil Whitlow
Editor, The Wisteria Almanack
Winter 1856, from a desk in Charleston
Prairie near Sagebrush Ridge, Kansas Territory
November 12, 1855
My dearest Lettie,
Your last letter was a balm to me, as always. The description of your fall garden—the marigolds still holding their little orange heads up in defiance of the chill—made me smile. Here, the prairie has long since turned brittle and bone-colored. The wind is sharp enough to slice through wool, and the sky hovers low and gray, like it’s listening to us.
I’ve something peculiar to share. I would not have thought to write of it, but it has colored my days more than I care to admit, and since you always ask for the true shape of my life here, not just the practical bits—I will tell you.
About three weeks past, I found a man near the southern edge of the property. He was half-conscious, laid out under the cottonwoods with a fever so high I feared he wouldn’t last the night. His leg—God help him—was shattered in a way that turned my stomach to look at it. A horse accident, I imagine, though he wasn’t exactly forthcoming at first.
I brought him in. What else was I to do? Leave him for the coyotes?
His name, I later learned, is Hank Dawson. He said little the first few days—only groaned when I set his leg, which I did with the aid of a handbook I’ve near memorized by now and a good bit of whispered prayer. I brewed willow bark and yarrow, kept him wrapped in every blanket I own, and waited.
He’s quiet. Watchful. Like a man who’s been out in the wild too long and doesn’t know quite what to do in a room with warm bread and a woman who talks to herself while she kneads it.
I wasn’t afraid, Lettie. I know you’ll want to scold me for bringing a stranger into my cabin, but I tell you true: I looked into his face and saw not menace, but something worn and sad. Like the prairie itself, in November.
He speaks a little more now. Yesterday, he corrected me on the name of a hawk I saw circling the ridge—said it was a ferruginous, not a red-tail, and then explained the difference with the slow, certain patience of someone used to long silences. I reckon he’s been a scout or trapper or some such. His clothes are worn near to threads, but his boots—what’s left of them—were once of good quality. That tells me something.
I still don’t know what brought him here. He hasn’t said, and I haven’t asked. Not yet.
I don’t mean to make more of it than it is. He’s just… here. A presence. Like the wind, or the smell of smoke in my hair after tending the stove. I find I’ve begun to speak aloud again as I go about the day, not just in my head. And sometimes—this is the strange part—I catch him listening, and not with judgment. With interest.
I’m not sure what to make of that.
Forgive my rambling. Perhaps I’m just grateful to have another voice in the room, even one that rarely speaks.
Write when you can and tell me how your winter coats turned out. I do miss the sound of scissors on cloth and your fussing with patterns. It always made the house feel busy, even when Papa was gone.
Yours always,
Marian
P.S. The man—Hank—sleeps with his brow furrowed like he’s chasing something even in dreams. It’s a hard thing to watch. I think he’s lost more than just the use of his leg.
Chestnut Street, Philadelphia
December 1st, 1855
My dearest Marian,
Well. You certainly know how to bury the lede, sister mine.
Three paragraphs of prairie winds and my marigolds before casually mentioning a strange man recuperating under your roof with a shattered leg? You ought to consider journalism—your timing is exquisite.
I read your letter aloud to Mother (though I left out the more fevered bits about his dreams, as she already disapproves of your “wild independence,” and this would only confirm every dire premonition she’s ever had about women living alone). Naturally, she pursed her lips and declared, “It’s precisely what I expected,” before returning to her embroidery.
But I, Marian Elizabeth Tate, am utterly fascinated.
Who is he, really? You say scout or trapper, but I know you too well. There’s more to your silence than practicality. You’re watching him, aren’t you? Weighing his every movement the way you do with wild things that might either bolt or build a nest in your rafters.
You were always the brave one. I remember how you stitched up Father’s forearm without so much as a wince while I nearly fainted beside you. And yet, you speak of this Hank Dawson with such restraint that it only makes me more curious. (I suspect that’s intentional.)
Is he young? Old? Plain as pudding or distractingly handsome? You never said. Not that I’m prying. Well. I am—but only a little.
Do be cautious, Marian. You know I trust your instincts, but even a quiet man may carry storms behind his eyes. And you’ve been alone for so long that I worry your heart is starved for company, not just kinship. There’s no shame in that. Only danger, sometimes.
Still, your words read differently this time. As though something is shifting—slowly, like frost melting on the eaves.
Tell me more, won’t you?
With all my love (and a healthy dose of concern),
Lettie
P.S. Your mention of bread made me ache for your kitchen. I swear no one in this city can bake a proper loaf without burning the crust. Do send your recipe again—mine’s gone missing. Perhaps Hank would like something better than boiled root vegetables for a change?
Prairie near Sagebrush Ridge, Kansas Territory
December 19th, 1855
My dearest Lettie,
Your letter made me laugh aloud, which startled the chickens and caused Hank to raise an eyebrow from his corner by the stove. I told him you were speculating about his looks, which earned me a quiet “Hmph” and the faintest upward tug at the corner of his mouth. A smile, I think, though he guards them like coin.
You asked if he is young. I’d say nearer thirty-five, though the sun and hardship make guessing a game of shadows. His hair is dark, like the cottonwoods just before a storm, and he has the kind of eyes that don’t dart, but settle. Observant. Worn. There’s something in him that waits before speaking—like the land itself, if that makes sense.
I find myself talking more again. To him, yes—but also aloud when I write, as though that might tether the words better. You know I’ve never been good with silence unless I chose it.
The truth is, it feels less like he’s a guest, and more like he’s happened to me. Like the blizzard that caught us in '49: unexpected, changing everything, and still not done with its work even after the snow melts. He keeps to himself, mostly. Reads if his leg allows, though I’ve only three books to offer, and one’s a farmer’s almanac. Still, I catch him rereading the same page more than once—not out of dullness, but because he’s thinking beneath the words.
He whittles. I found a small bird on the windowsill yesterday. I didn’t ask if he made it. He didn’t say. But I left a bit of cloth near his cot this morning, just in case he needed something to wrap a carving. We speak through gestures now, too, it seems.
Thank you for your warning, Lettie. I carry it with care. I promise you I am not taken in by romance—not yet, not foolishly. But there is something in him that mirrors my own quiet places. I don’t know what that means yet. Only that it doesn’t feel dangerous. Not in the way that matters.
And yes—I will send you the bread recipe, though I warn you it’s all instinct and handfuls. I doubt your cook will appreciate such vagueness.
With affection (and more curiosity than I’ll admit aloud),
Marian
P.S. The prairie has gone white overnight. The cabin groans with the wind. But there is warmth here, in small things. A fire. A presence. A letter from my sister.
✧ Interlude: Of Silence, Snow, and the Spaces Between ✧
A Note from the Editor’s Hearth – Sybil Whitlow, Winter 1856
There are times, dear reader, when the quiet between letters speaks as eloquently as the ink itself.
In these weeks of early winter—when the lamps burn low and frost etches lace on the glass—I find myself lingering not only on the words sent between Mrs. Marian Tate and Miss Colette Abernathy, but on what they do not say.
A silence shared by sisters is never empty. It is filled with the sound of remembered footsteps in an upstairs hall… the rustle of dresses by the hearth… the unseen thread that stretches from one sewing basket in Philadelphia to a cupboard of root vegetables in Kansas. It holds old quarrels softened by time, lullabies sung once and never again, and the memory of one daughter packing a trunk while the other looked on.
And now—here in this journal, among recipes for rosehip preserves and candle-polishing remedies—we find ourselves guests at that most private of doorways: the heart learning to speak again.
Mrs. Tate’s cabin, though far from our cities and parlors, is no less a home for the season’s hush. The snow outside her window is the same snow that graces my rooftop tonight. And like her, we listen—for changes in the wind, for warmth beside the stove, for the creak of unfamiliar footsteps becoming known.
I offer no conclusion here. Only this:
May we all be so lucky to receive a letter when the night is long.May we all find someone, someday, who carves small birds and does not boast of it.
And may we all have the courage, like Marian, to speak our lives aloud—even if only a sister is listening.
Yours, under a quilt of wool and quiet,
Sybil Whitlow
Editor, The Wisteria Almanack
Charleston, South Carolina
Winter, 1856
If you missed Marian and Hank's story, click "Letters from Sagebrush Ridge" below.
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